There is no housing for forty years old - are there still such? How to influence the "parasitic" position of a man? Male and female rents an apartment for things.

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We live in a very interesting time. Now a trace in history, albeit a shallow one, can be left by anyone. To do this, it is not at all necessary to fly into space, it is enough to post a video with a cat on the network. Even more often we sell, buy, change, inform, ask, including on the Internet.

website it became very interesting, but is it possible to trace the life stages of an entire family using such ads? We did not conduct research, but decided to dream up a little on this topic.

“An experienced climber is urgently needed who can teach wall climbing to a young man who is afraid of heights. Dressed as Batman with a bouquet of flowers. The pay is high."
“The newlyweds will rent a small furnished apartment in any area. Everything, including timely payment, is guaranteed! Having a huge double bed and deaf neighbors is a must!”
“We will buy a crib and a stroller, you can use it.”
“We will buy headphones for completely and not deaf neighbors. It can be used."
“A young decent family of three will rent a two-room apartment in a quiet area. The presence of a nearby park and kindergarten is desirable. An airfield, a chemical plant and a nightclub are not necessary at all.”
“We will give away a crib and a stroller for free. Stroller on the move, but with high mileage. The autographs left by the teeth of the previous owners are clearly visible on the crib.
“Nanny needed for 3 year old boy. With work experience, pedagogical education and nerves of steel.
P.S. Over 45 years old and no experience in beauty pageants!”
"Children's shoes for sale. New. The size did not fit, but it was not possible to change.
“We will buy a garage in our area for a small car. Really small. If you don’t have a garage, but a comfortable kennel for a fairly large dog is empty, call anyway!
“Urgent sale of a double bed! Inexpensive! Warmly recommended to families wishing to have a child!”
“We will buy a house in the suburbs for a family of four, with a two-car garage. The presence of a nearby school and kindergarten is a must. We will sell a well-maintained St. Bernard kennel with a pit for technical inspection.
“We need a third grade math tutor with work experience and lack of nerves. Need a nanny for a four year old girl, with experience as a psychologist and stuntman.
“The albino hamster Clyde and the family’s favorite, adorable ginger cat Bonnie, are missing. Please help find! Children are waiting for their pets!”
“Thank you all for participating! Bonnie came by herself - guilty, but well-fed. The search can be stopped. Urgently buy an albino hamster that looks like Clyde!”
“Family, friends and neighbors congratulate a wonderful couple living in a big house in the suburbs on 15 years of happiness together! Keep it up guys!"
"Urgently needed a private detective - a specialist in adultery, able to catch red-handed a cunning and mean male individual."
“It takes an experienced devil (a good divorce lawyer will do) who can make life hell for one lying bastard.”
"A penitent will urgently buy a flower market and a small jewelry store."
“A big house in the suburbs is rented for a month (We made up and we’re going to Hawaii!)”.
“Witnesses of an accident on Tsvetochnaya Street (at 14:00 a car hit a teenager on a bicycle), please call the family or the police.”
“A rare blood type is urgently needed. Our son will die if we don't get a transfusion soon. We will die with him. Please".
“We have no words to express our sincere gratitude to all who responded. We are happy - our boy will live. We are proud - he will live on the same planet with you.
“We need a piano tutor for a third grader. Preferably with experience playing rugby or American football. The pay is high."
“We will buy an old car, a small car, preferably not on the move. Red or yellow color, it is possible in a flower. My son graduated from high school with C's.
“A family from a big house in the suburbs is holding an action “Emergency farewell to childhood”. Rollers, skis, teen bikes, skates, toys - everything is used. Come pick it up quickly while the kids are away.”
“We will sell a piano in excellent condition, inexpensively. Tutors who promised to burn the instrument on the lawn near our house, please do not disturb!”
“A master is urgently required to remove the tattoo from the right arm of one obnoxious girl. The payment is high, provided that the procedure is long and painful!”
“I will buy a used scooter, with one wheel and without an engine. Congratulations on your graduation, daughter!
“We will buy a small apartment in the capital for a brilliant graduate of the Aerospace University.”
“Family, friends and neighbors wish happy birthday to the head of a family living in a big house in the suburbs. It's only the beginning!"
"Let's buy a small apartment in the capital for a budding pianist."
"The City Hall announces that the awarding of the Pride of Our Town awards to the rocket engineer and virtuoso pianist will take place at their parents' big house in the suburbs."
“The cheerful old man will buy a titanium alloy wheelchair with an engine. The device must develop a speed of at least 60 km / h. At lower speeds, chasing grandchildren is much more difficult.”
“Required nurse-nurse for an elderly man. With work experience. Not younger than 50 years old! Not a model appearance!
“Family, friends and neighbors will miss you very much. We love you and still believe that everything is just beginning. The farewell will take place at 12.00 in a large house in the suburbs.
“A lonely older woman will meet a man of the same age. Only for joint tea drinking and pleasant conversation! As an intimate, I can offer viewing of family photos and a master class in the fight against insanity.
“An elderly woman urgently needs a nurse with a medical degree who knows how to play poker and preference.”
"For sale is a large lonely house in the suburbs."

The article is only for those who have encountered this in life and sincerely would like to change something.

Unfortunately, almost half of the women live in this scenario: a man lives on the territory of a woman, she feeds him, he has unstable, unstable earnings, he does not buy anything for the house, etc.
As a result, an extremely dissatisfied, powerless and irritated woman sits and does not understand how to change this situation.

In this article, I will look at the general points that women come with for consultations.

Appeal to girls: remember that everything that happens in life is a reflection of your inner. And if you are faced with such a situation in life, then apparently you at some point in your life realized that being strong, independent and independent is the only way to survive.

I myself was the same, and I also thought so, and also meeting even with strong, tough men, I tried to fight with them and defend their rights, to which they were simply perplexed.
And only after considerable internal work on the accumulation of feminine qualities and skills, I was able to become happy next to a strong man.

First of all, the beginning of a relationship. It is important to accept these rules for yourself once and for all and firmly inexorably follow them, even if it causes bewilderment, irritation and aggression in your man. You must always stay true to your rules.

Clarification: all the rules must be followed in a feminine way softly and gently on the outside (speak calmly, softly with a smile, naive) and firmly confident inside (when you know for sure that under no circumstances will you move from your own)

Women's mistakes and new rules:
1. A woman pays for herself in cafes, cinemas, etc.

When you pay the bill yourself, you relax the man with this gesture.
When they bring you a bill, you just wait for the man to pay - without unnecessary gestures. The cases are different: if suddenly a man hints that you pay the bill separately, just look innocently and say that you never take money with you on a date, and even better, don’t actually take it, except perhaps by taxi.
If your man is not able to pay for your joint entertainment, then inspire him to make money. Tell him that he is the best and that he will certainly succeed. But this advice only works if you sincerely believe in it and love your man, just put up with temporary difficulties.

Rule #1:
A man pays for everything, whether it's your boyfriend or just a friend. Everything that concerns money, purchases and material things lies on the shoulders of a man.

2. A woman brings a man to her territory (because a man is without his own) and prepares food from her products.

What for? But because she is not confident in herself and wants to buy a man, to keep her by her side, because the lack of female perfections is easily compensated and replaced by money, and even then by bravado. A woman, of course, can give expensive gifts, but not in your case, especially since a real man will be much more pleased with something sweet, original and sincere.
What matters to a man is not money from a woman, but the fortune that she can give. The internal state of purity, dignity, nobility, calmness, confidence, luxury is precisely internal.

Rule #3:
Stop giving expensive gifts and letting your things be used. Make gifts just sweet and sincere: knit a scarf, give a flashlight of desires, a mug with his photo - it just has to be cute and warm, and not expensive and angry.

4. A woman repairs herself, carries heavy bags, makes repairs, etc.

Even if you masterfully hammer nails, break through a clogged sink, repair appliances - let a man do it better, even download programs from the Internet - let a man do it too, your only task is to USE, and repairing and making upgrades is the task of a man. He doesn’t want to screw in the light bulb - sit well in the dark, the tap is flowing - well, let it flow. Just ask and make such innocent eyes and look at the floor in such a puzzled way. Another, very feminine way is to sit down and start to be sad and sigh - for a day, two, three - until the light bulb is screwed in. If you continue to affirm the principle of not doing men's things, then there will definitely be a man who will do it. Even if it's not your man.

Rule #4:
Wait until the man does all the men's things himself, and generously praise for each thing and assure him that only he alone could do it, and that without him, well, there would be no way at all.

Even these rules will already be enough for the ice to break. In moments when you want to say - it does not work, well, I told you - you just need to keep doing it !!!
And the situation will change unexpectedly - either the man will change, or he will leave. Both of these options are viable.

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Elena Panteleeva, a participant in the Male / Female program on Channel One, a resident of Saratov, in the recent past, a correspondent for the regional newspaper Region 64, told the details of filming the program, the main topic of which was at the hands of her stepfather.

Recall that the program aired on March 23. The mother of the child, her relatives, acquaintances of the accused in the murder were invited to the studio. Elena Panteleeva was also in the Saratov group: she lives close to the crime scene.

“Employees of the Male/Female project found me through social networks and invited me to participate in the program. Apparently, their competitors from Malakhov's "Let them talk" had the same intentions. But the guys from the "Male / Female" worked faster. They even said that the mother of the deceased boy was sent to Moscow from the regional center 3 days before the shooting of the program and they hid her in a secret place to protect her from contacts with competitors.

The citizens of Saratov were sent to the capital by plane. From Domodedovo by taxi - to the place of filming. Most likely, this is one of the Mosfilm sites. Passed strictly according to the list with the presentation of a passport. The studio is equipped in a metal hangar. Make-up was applied to us in trailers, standing at a distance. In them, we waited for the start of filming. At the same time, they tried to separate all the participants so that they did not communicate with each other, did not exchange information.

The program is usually led by Alexander Gordon and Yulia Baranovskaya together. This time Julia was alone. We were told that Gordon was ill.

The recording started with me. The studio was filled with people. Apparently, this audience is the regulars of the filming. You could say professional extras. With my story, I kind of brought him up to date, said what I knew and saw, expressed my attitude to the situation. Of course, this story could not leave me indifferent. A tense atmosphere immediately arose in the studio. Yulia Baranovskaya skillfully led the conversation. You have to give her credit. As a mother, she took what happened in Saratov very personally, it was clear that her feelings were not feigned, but sincere.

As expected by the talk show format, there were experts in the studio. Many familiar, media faces. But I probably recognized only one - our countryman Bari Alibasov. Most likely, experts are recruited precisely on the principle of community with the heroes of the next program. Bari Karimovich, it must be said, was not the brightest expert, there were much more interesting judgments than his.

The audience was looking forward to the main "heroine" - the mother of the deceased child. Everyone experienced an emotional shock when they saw her calm, her position was especially struck, almost justifying the criminal.

What kind of remarks from the audience I have not heard in her address! Many did not air. The most harmless: “We still need to check why she moved from Rostov to Saratov. Maybe she has a dark past ... ". It makes no sense to retell the entire program. It's easier to look it up online. I can say that such programs are very important, they are not for entertainment: public condemnation is not an empty formality. By the way, the participants did not receive any fees or daily allowances. They didn’t go to earn money, ”Elena Panteleeva told the Region 64 news agency.

Vlada and Konstantin have been married for the sixteenth year.
They live amicably and well, raise two daughters - such families are usually envied. But Vlada is sure that they have nothing to envy.
All these years they live in rented apartments, which were replaced by more than a dozen.
A few years ago, Vlad was not particularly bothered by all this, and she told all sorts of cases related to moving, with laughter. About silly landladies, about how they were thrown out of another apartment almost in the middle of the night when they were nine months pregnant, about a crazy old woman with whom they lived in the neighborhood "at the last apartment" ... After a while, listening to these stories is funny and funny, however, in fact, there is nothing funny in all this, and those around them look sympathetically - there is nothing to envy ...

And in recent years, Vlada feels that she is mortally tired of it. Search for apartments, agents, overpayments, collecting things in boxes, abnormal owners, other people's stains on loose furniture, old women's interiors, moth-eaten carpets on the walls, blown through cracks in the windows and doors of the room, the need to wash someone else's dirt every time before settling - all this rests on her shoulders. It is probably possible to rent a better and cleaner apartment, but, as a rule, it is a pity for the money, it already takes an abyss. In addition, in recent years they have been tied to the district - girls go to school, and picking them up in the middle of the year, taking them to a new place, arranging them anywhere is absolutely not an option. Musical, mugs, swimming pool - everything ties to a specific place. So you have to compromise, agreeing to what is. Put up with shabby wallpaper, creaky sofas, old furniture, someone else's, battered plumbing - and even pay crazy money for it ...

Girlfriends living in their apartments make repairs from time to time, discuss interiors, choose curtains and bedspreads, order new kitchens and upholstered furniture. Vlad would also like to choose, discuss and order. But, unfortunately, nowhere.

No, well, compared with the world revolution, all this is trifles.
The main thing, of course, is not this. Children are healthy and smart, they themselves are in order, there is peace and harmony in the family - what else is needed. I guess people have bigger problems.
But Vlad is tired. Tired of living on bird rights. I want my own nest, probably most women understand this. Hang curtains matched to your wallpaper and parquet, cover YOUR bed with chic bedding, donated for the wedding and still in the package. Buy new dishes and put them in YOUR sideboard...

The problem is that Vlada's husband, Konstantin, is categorically against loans, and considers mortgages to be robbery and voluntary slavery.
Moreover, by the nature of his activity, he encounters people who have made loans and failed, he sees how it happens, and a long time ago he swore once and for all - for nothing and never.
- What do you feel bad about in a rented apartment? - says Kostya to his wife. - Yes, the whole world lives like that! Soon it will be the same with us! .. What do you need - there is a roof over your head, the school is nearby! Tired of this area - we will find a better one! .. Do you really want to be in bondage?

Vlad does not want to be in bondage - but without this it is almost impossible to get your own housing.
Parents are a little over sixty, they will live happily ever after, so there is no hope for an inheritance.
Vlada is offended and sorry that somehow children grew up on suitcases, and it turns out for them too. there is no corner - well, if you do not take into account the apartments of grandmothers, of course. And it’s also uncomfortable in front of acquaintances - it seems that everyone ... regrets somehow. Such squeamish pity, like losers.
Indeed, literally all acquaintances at this age already have property - an apartment, a country house, or even not in the singular.

Do you know people who are under forty and who have neither a yard nor a stake?
Do you condemn such people in your heart?
Do you think that it is necessary to resolve the issue by any means, to take out a mortgage, because a loan for housing is a necessary thing?
Or is Konstantin right, and any loan is ripped off and slavery, and is it better to have no apartment at all than to hunchback at the bank all your life?
What do you think?