Why didn't the wife cook dinner for her husband. Why didn't the wife cook dinner for her husband Why didn't the wife cook dinner for her husband
author Brunette in Marmalade asked a question in Other household chores
Why is it considered that a wife MUST cook breakfast / lunch / dinner for her husband (if they both work the same way).? and got the best answer
Answer from Lyuba Ivanova[guru]
In my opinion, cooking and feeding a beloved husband is a pleasure, in general, you need to marry someone who wants to cook and wash and do a lot more.
Lyuba Ivanova
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Unfortunately, you are right (((but harmony is rarely achievable and sometimes we love them too much and spoil them with this.
Answer from Valik kurudimov[guru]
read the 10 commandments...
Answer from Yovoya Game[guru]
Because the husband does other things around the house.
Answer from Anna Khan[guru]
And we feed the men!!
Answer from Summer[guru]
where is it considered? we don’t count the one who has time or takes turns preparing
Answer from Alena Koviev[newbie]
because you are a woman
Answer from [email protected]
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No one owes nothing to nobody! It is necessary to agree on cooking and other household chores on the shore, then there will be fewer quarrels.
Answer from Lara[guru]
Well, of course, the wife does not have to do anything)
Answer from Ђ_T[guru]
I do not understand. In essence, the issue is probably remnants of the old days when a man caught animals and his wife cooked them because he did not have the strength). But in fact - I don’t know who makes you cook, there’s no such thing that it’s accepted, if I come earlier I always cook my own food, or if I get up earlier)
Answer from David Kalandadze[guru]
What's the problem, tell him to let him cook for himself ..))
Answer from Bogdashka[active]
Do not know. My husband and I share everything. May kitchen. And everything else is his (cleaning, laundry)
Answer from Yatiana Kostina[guru]
they work the same way or just both, of course, no one owes anything to anyone, only then why do you need a woman in the house at all, you can get by like that - well, otherwise they ask the reason for divorces - this is the first
Answer from Irishka Kirdyaeva[guru]
Hearth Keeper Wife! she washes, cleans, cooks, etc. but, she cannot hammer a nail or do any other work, and so the wife thanks her husband with her work for his work, and the husband thanks her for her work, the pattern ....
Answer from Helen Chaton[guru]
Wife SHOULD NOT. And simply, she takes care of her husband so that he does not go hungry. That's all.
It’s easy for me to get up half an hour earlier than my husband in order to have time for everything, including feeding and giving food with me, and it’s just as easy to cook the next day in the evening. These are all natural things for a woman.
I work in a leadership position. The head of the house is the husband. Everything is very simple.
Answer from Be yourself[guru]
because there are many who want to cook breakfast for him, but you were lucky))
Some issues in family life confuse spouses. It seems to be awkward to ask the second half about them, but it’s not clear what to do with them. So, quite often men are perplexed why their spouse reacts to their words or actions in some unexpected way. Of course, most often such questions arise in people who have only recently lived together, but experienced couples sometimes face frank bewilderment. A fairly common topic for debate can be the question: why does the wife not feed her husband dinner?
Why didn't my wife cook dinner??
The habit of not cooking
If you just got married recently and are faced with such a problem as the lack of a daily dinner on the table, just try to talk to your wife. Perhaps she just does not know that her cooking for you plays such an important role. It may well be that in the girl's family it was not customary to cook complex dishes, and everyone was interrupted by simple and light food - fruits, milk, sandwiches, scrambled eggs. This often happens if a girl lived for a long time on her own, with other girls or with her mother. Indeed, many of the fair sex refuse late meals in order to maintain their figure.
So, if dinner in the evening from your beloved is so important to you, tell her about it. Of course, it is not a fact that she will be delighted with your request, but if the girl really loves you, she will try to please you with tasty and satisfying food. But at the same time, do not forget to tell her about your taste preferences, otherwise you may be in for a “pleasant” surprise in the form of mashed spinach or asparagus with something else very healthy, but not too edible.
Criticism in the past
By the way, quite often girls do not cook their favorite dinner, as they have already faced criticism of their cooking. Of course, after outright dissatisfaction, they simply do not want to experiment in the kitchen. If you have ever made such a mistake and criticized the dishes prepared by your beloved, correct yourself. Remember her some successful culinary experiment and say that you would like to eat such a dish again. Try cooking in the kitchen together - it can be very exciting. Or, in extreme cases, apologize wholeheartedly and again remind you of your taste preferences.
Can't cook?
It is worth noting that now many girls who are getting married feel completely insecure in the kitchen. Simply put, they just don't know how to cook. And do not be surprised at this, the rhythm of life for many of us is such that it is much easier to have a bite to eat in a cafe than to try to build something from different products. Therefore, you can offer the girl to cook together, but do not emphasize her inability, because she may be offended. You can invite her to go to some kind of master class, give her an interesting collection of recipes, or periodically send links to some very simple dishes with suggestions to try to cook them together.
Resentment and manipulation
Some girls completely refuse to cook dinner for their husband after they are very offended by him. Of course, the method of manipulating food and sex could be very effective, but not in this world. If you feel guilty, apologize, but if you are sure that your wife was offended for no reason and is simply manipulating you, cook something amazingly tasty for yourself to show that in this area of \u200b\u200blife you are completely independent of her. Or, in extreme cases, order your own food to take home.
Maybe I just couldn't?
Another possible reason why the wife does not cook dinner for her husband, and she is quite banal. Maybe she just doesn't have time. If a spouse runs off to work early in the morning, and returns in the dark, watching a newborn baby or a couple of fidgety weather, then she definitely has neither the time, nor the strength, nor the desire to cook dinner. And the wife herself does not always have time to eat. Therefore, try to unload it a little and take some of the worries (in particular, the organization of dinner) on yourself. Over time, the spouse will be able to appreciate your efforts, and life will improve.
Disease also belongs to this group of causes. Of course, if the spouse is frankly not feeling too well, she does not have the energy to cook. It is clear that in such a situation, readers of "Popular about Health" should take care of the organization of food.
In pursuit of a good figure
Sometimes those women who are struggling with excess weight completely refuse home cooking. They prefer not to cook anything serious, so as not to break loose, and not to eat something high-calorie, fatty, smoked, etc. Here you have several options:
Take a closer look at yourself, maybe you also need to lose weight by restricting yourself in food;
Cook for yourself, order food at home or eat in a cafe;
Persuade your wife to give up bad ideas if she looks really, really good.
If you haven't found a single explanation for the lack of dinner among all the above points, perhaps the wife does not want to cook simply because she does not care. It doesn’t matter to her whether you are full after a hard day’s work, and she doesn’t want to please you. Or maybe just the spouse does not realize that a delicious homemade dinner is so important for you? Be frank with your wife, talk to her and tell her about your understanding of the family. At the same time, you will find out what family means to her. When you can understand each other, then you will have a chance to build a really open, strong and honest relationship.
