Blessing of the child by the mother

It is very important to bless your children from early childhood, because whatever you call a boat, that's how it will float. Appeal to a child such as "stupid", "piggy", etc. akin to a curse. And the appeal “my angel”, “my good one” (and others like it), like a good grain, will one day sprout, bringing a small, medium or large fruit. Priest Dimitry Fetisov

What is a blessing for you?

I don't want to give you everything ready. I want to move you, stir you up, push you to think and desensitize))) Let's figure it out together. What is the first thing that comes to mind that fills your heart when you hear this word?

Blessing… Stop and listen.

When I asked this question to my subscribers, I received many answers, but all the answers were divided in meaning. Rather, in terms of meaning.

In general, all the answers were directed to well-being, the desire to convey with blessing the best that is possible to imagine.

But what exactly was the best in each answer - that was the difference.

Firstly, the meaning of this word, people most often invested exactly what they themselves needed. And the meaning that you saw / felt in the Blessing is most likely what you wanted to receive from your parents, but for some reason did not receive, or you think that you did not receive.

Secondly, all people go through certain stages in their lives. And by the way you determine the Blessing, your location is very clearly determined. Are you still a child, are you in the process of growing and have grown up, or are you already an adult and independent?

Either way, you can use your new understanding to make happy changes in your life.

I ended up dividing into three different groups:

1. Blessing is a talisman, protection, cover, who shelter their children from misfortune and misfortune. A dome under which there is a desire to create greenhouse conditions. This definition at its root carries the idea that the world is unsafe, that there is negativity, evil, misfortunes that you want to protect your children from. It also conveys distrust. They do not believe that a matured daughter/son is able to choose the best for himself or cope with the consequences of his choice.
2. Blessing is Trust yourself, the world, life, child. This is respect and faith in your children and their abilities. This is the acceptance of your child and his choice. And it doesn’t matter at all what he chooses, work, lifestyle, life partner or attitude towards you. This is the knowledge that no matter what happens - this is the best for him and for you.
3. Blessing is Blessing. This is the Joy of being able to give your child the Inspiration for Life. This is a parting word before a big life. This is a message: “I felt good with you. I know you are strong. I know the world is beautiful. I am glad that we lived this period of life together. I was glad to be an intermediary between the Source and you. Now this is not necessary, you have grown up and know about your own Power. And not only do you know, but you can and use it. Get inspired to live the best version of your life and be the Creator of your Joy. Live! Create! Enjoy!

Whatever it is, in any form, the Blessing is the best that a parent can pass on to his child.

A mother's blessing is the most powerful amulet for a child. This invisible energy protection stays with a person all his life. She is always with him, and even when her mother is far away or she is no longer alive. By creating a kind of protective capsule, a mother's blessing protects from troubles, failures, evil eye or curses. In it, a person can draw strength, inspiration and well-being.

How to bless your child?

If you think that the Blessing is just a ritual, and you can limit yourself to a one-time wish for the Good, good for your child, yes, you can. You will do well for yourself and your child. But one ritual does not reveal the full potential of the Blessing.

You will bring much more benefit, more good into the life of your child by your ability to live in joy yourself, and without the participation of your child; with respect, recognition of his right to his life and his choice, acceptance and sincerity.

If all this is in your relationship, you are already Blessing him for happiness. And you do it in the most correct way, in my opinion.

If not yet, let this article be the beginning of Happy Changes or support in the Age of Your Changes)

What exactly to do?

The very first thing on this path is to remove your expectations. All parents have an ideal "What's Good" picture that can cover all areas of your child's life. From his inclinations and interests, to the choice of profession and spouse, methods of raising grandchildren and even lifestyle.

After all, you are a mother, you are older, wiser, smarter, and you know exactly how it should be ... But is it so?

More often than not, it's "good" for you, not for the baby. This time.

And to make it clearer, look back. To your mom. Think back to a time when she knew what was good for you. Remember all your bitterness that was born in you when you realized that you did not meet the expectations of your mother? That she gives you an example of your friend or neighbor's daughter. Do you want to convey this bitter taste further? Not? That's wonderful!

The second, but more fundamental: to get rid of resentments and obligations.

Do you have resentment against your child in your life? Do you feel that he/she owes you attention, help or time? If so, this is another happiness trap. Happiness for parents and happiness for children.

Your relationship is your strength. What do you feel you are getting out of this relationship? Joy and support, a source of strength and inspiration, or resentment and understatement, a gaping hole and a parched desert in the soul?

I know it's longer, more complicated, but, in my opinion, more accurate. What do you think?

How the blessing works

It is difficult to overestimate the importance of the mother, it is not for nothing that she is connected with the child by invisible threads until the end of her days. Psychics claim that the mother has an influence on each of us at the level of subtle matters. Energetically, the child is a continuation of the mother. That is why she can change his fate. And on the direction in which she wants to direct this very fate, his future life depends.

Blessing should be given not only before the start of family life, but also before any significant event. For example, buying or selling an apartment, moving, starting a business. The essence of the blessing is that the mother creates a kind of protective cocoon around the child, which does not allow him to get into trouble and directs all the actions that the mother has blessed into the right direction.

The blessing works even at long distances. It is believed that a person who has been blessed by his mother becomes invulnerable. It is impossible to refuse a blessing, even if the parents do not like the things that need to be blessed, otherwise the child may face failures that threaten life and health.

There are two options. The first option - your parents, or someone from the older generation are alive, and you can talk, forgive, let go of grievances and ask for forgiveness yourself.

What to do if there is no one to bless you?

In this case, you have to work on your own. And your path can be quite long. Most importantly, you need to free yourself from resentment.

Yes Yes. I'm talking about this again) Your grievances are your burden, which will never let you get what you can get from your elders, from your Family. Your release from this negative burden is part of your Blessing for a happy life.

Subtleties and nuances

1. Know that the Blessing of Need does not work. Rather, it works, but does not reveal its full power. The most effective Blessing from Prosperity. Listen for yourself: - I was not happy, even though you be happy - this message carries a limitation in the form of a sense of guilt imposed on your child. And this is just the tip of the iceberg.

“We were together, but I was not happy with you” - listen to this, because this is the message we send to our children.

Or: - I feel fear for your life and your future, and I want to get rid of anxiety, I want peace in my life. “The world is a dangerous place. Other people are dangerous "- also not the most harmonious message for our children)

2. It seems to me that the Blessing is not so much a ritual, but a whole way of life, a way of communicating with children. Again, this is my vision. If you are far from having a Blessed relationship with your children or parents, start by adding respect and goodwill to them.

3. These are the very first and simple steps. If this also seems impossible (luggage from the past is different for everyone, there is no bad luggage, sometimes it is not dismantled) - this is a very big topic, but we can sort it out in the next article.

4. Blessing is multifaceted, it can carry more and better, even if the parent does not even know about it. Often it is with the thought of the Blessing that better changes are launched in the relationship between children and parents. This means that you can master an amazingly powerful tool that allows you to start happy changes in your relationship with your mother and in your relationship with your children, and even start harmonizing your own life as a bonus.

If a mother decides to bless her child, then she must prepare for this. First you need to think about the wishes of your child. Everything you wish for at this moment will come true. Therefore, formulate your wishes in such a way as not to limit the possibilities of the child, not to build his life according to your own plan, because you are an ordinary person and you can make mistakes!

Please do not wish for anything specific, for example: "I wish you to have a higher education." Maybe your child does not want to have it, or maybe, on the contrary, he wants to have several and different ones, and you limited him in advance.

Standing in front of the child and looking into his eyes, the mother says:

I give you a son (daughter) _____ (name) my maternal Blessing for a happy life, material well-being and prosperity and wish you _____ (here you say everything that your soul desires for a child).

Wishes that do not take away freedom of choice can be as follows:
- I wish you to be, live, act, be able and have;
- I wish you to rejoice in your successes and the successes of others;
- I wish you to get satisfaction and prosperity, doing your creative self-expression;
- I wish you to love and be loved;
- I wish you to have free will;
- I wish you to have an easy financial life;
- I wish you to have a source of strength, beauty and harmony in your heart and mind;
- I wish you to have self-confidence;
- I wish you to have the ability to breathe fully and freely;
- I wish you that your life stream heals every cell of your body;
– I wish you to have the ability to trust people;
- I wish you to have enough time, energy, wisdom, money to fulfill all your desires;
- I wish you to be able to successfully hit at the right time and in the right place;
- I wish you to be generous, accepting it wholeheartedly and with joy;
– I wish you to be an expression of the Divine Principle of life in all its greatness;
- I wish you to be ready to accept the best;
- I wish you to enjoy yourself and accept yourself as you are;
- I wish you all _____, etc.

So, think carefully about what you would like your child to wish and remember these wishes. At the time of the Blessing, nothing is read on a piece of paper!

If it is not possible to give the mother's Blessing orally - "eye to eye", then the child is blessed in writing.
After reading any maternal prayer, the mother writes a letter to her child:

“Hello, son (daughter), I am writing to you to give my maternal Blessing for a happy life, material well-being and prosperity. I wish you ____ (list your wishes). I give you my maternal Blessing for a happy life, material well-being and prosperity. ".

Burn the written letter.

How to get a mother's Blessing for an adult

Many have tried to receive the Blessing by talking to their mother. But, as a rule, such a Blessing did not give results. If you want to certainly receive the Blessing personally from your mother, then you will have to express to her eyes both all the good and all the bad that you have accumulated over many years. And then she, in a “good” mood, should give you her Blessing.

There is an easier and more affordable way to solve this problem - just write a letter to your mother and burn it. And it does not matter whether she is alive or not, lives far from you or in the same house with you. At the same time, telling your mother that you asked her for a Blessing is not at all necessary, but it is not even desirable. Even if your relationship with your mother is very trusting, this should be your little secret. Your letter is enough for your mother to hear you.

First of all, you need to choose a time and place so that no one bothers you while writing a letter. Put a photo of your mother on the table, and if there is no photo, imagine that your mother is sitting opposite you and you want to talk to her.

You can light a candle and start your letter in tenderness: “ Hello mother! I am writing to you from a far, far away ... I am writing this letter to you with a request: give me, mother, Blessing for life, material well-being and prosperity. I live, mother, without your parental Blessing ...". And then you have to write to your mother everything that you once wanted to tell her, but could not for some reason. It can be insults and reproaches, starting from early childhood, as well as unspoken words of love and gratitude. Whatever your hand and heart wants to write should be written.

It is not easy to write such a letter, and many tears may be shed. Cry without restraining yourself - these are tears of relief. If you want, you can tell your mother about your life, about your joys and sorrows. When you write, do not pay attention to mistakes, the beauty of your handwriting and the completeness of your thoughts. No one will ever read this letter, and you don't need to reread it either. Your main task is to throw out everything unspoken on paper in order to restore, establish the finest threads of your relationship with your mother. You need to write until your thoughts run out, and when your hand, as if by itself, will bring out “I bless”. When you finish writing, burn the letter without rereading it, and write down the date and time you finished writing.

What needs to be done so that the Mother's Blessing comes into your life

In order for the Mother's Blessing to come into your life, it is necessary not to waste your responsibility for seven days. In doing so, try to follow these guidelines:
1. Do not pity, do not blame or reproach others.
2. Write down all the things you need to do. And do 2 to 5 things a day, so that no more than three remain.

3. Every day say out loud:
I am fully responsible for all the circumstances of my life

4. Stop doubting. I did it because I did it. If you doubt your actions, then it is fear, guilt or resentment.
5. Trust people more and stop controlling them. The phrase helps: “The less I interfere, the better it turns out.”

How to track the receipt of the Blessing

Everything in life follows certain cycles. Thus, the grounding of material well-being occurs according to the 777 system. In this case, it is seven days, seven weeks and seven months. Therefore, we will track three stages.

First stage

On the seventh day after writing the letter, you need to track what will happen to the material side of your life. If the mother responded to your request and gave you her Blessing, then on the seventh day you will receive profit in your house. It can be expressed in money, valuable gifts, and the like. If you have been repaid a debt or received money, or found a penny on the street, or maybe they gave you change in a store or presented tickets to the theater - all this may be a sign that there is a Blessing.

It is very important to track what came first - profit or loss. If you were asked to borrow money, this is considered as a sign that there is no Blessing. And do not specifically adjust the situation of "profit" - this will not help you!

Attention! If there are no signs confirming the Blessing, or there were no changes with material values ​​​​that day, you need to write a letter again. Don't stop half way!

Delaying the re-writing of the letter, you can incur losses! So, let's say, on the seventh day after writing the letter, you made a profit - this means that the first stage of the Blessing has passed.

Second phase

Now we need to track the seventh week from the date of writing the letter. If the Mother's Blessing is indeed given to you, then in the seventh week your expenses for this week will be much less than your income. Again, not because you will save on purpose, but because circumstances will turn out that way. Income can exceed all your expectations. Well, what if the seventh week did not bring you the desired results?

On the contrary, they asked you for a loan and the beggars didn’t pass you by either, or circumstances forced you to spend a lot. Do not worry - our mothers very rarely “let us go” into an independent life at our first request! Be patient and, without delaying things, write to your mother again and ask for Blessings for life.

Let each time the letter be shorter - it does not matter. The main thing is that your request must be made in writing, and everything that you once did not say should be “poured” onto paper to the last drop. Each such letter must be burned.

Third stage

After a successful seventh week, you need to track the seventh month from the date of writing the mother's letter. The seventh month may not bring a lot of money, but if you really received the Blessing, this month will somehow lay a solid foundation for your well-being. This may be a new promising acquaintance, a lucrative offer of cooperation, a promotion, and the like. And you will feel that you are firmly on your feet.

Bless the mother of the children!

We can't stay away
And is indifferent to Vera,
We are responsible for CHILDREN on earth!
Therefore, we must PRAY for them!

An ordinary day ... Everyone has things to do in the morning.
The daughter shouted from the threshold:
“Mommy, see you soon! It's time for me to leave!
I hurry to the subway! Well, everything! - I ran!"

- “Listen, daughter, old mother,
I can't relieve my mental anxiety
On the road, you need to BLESS everyone,
Prayers from trouble will help to escape!”

Turned on the TV - Explosion in the subway!
Inside it broke, it got colder ...
My daughter is there! Gone not too long ago!
Even my heart hurt from fear!

And the phone is silent! Beats the pulse in the temple!
She flips through all the news in a row.
How can a daughter hear a voice?
“SAVE! HAVE PARTY!” - Quietly repeats.

And suddenly a call: “I'm a mother! I'm alive!
Well, just WONDERFUL! How did I manage?
I remembered the words of your prayer!”
- I didn’t see that my mother was all gray!