9 things men want in bed
Leaving aside the jokes about kefir and the TV remote control, which men in bed dream of permanently, we will give you tips on how to drive him crazy. Ready? Enjoy!
1. "NOW IT'S MY TURN"
Men like women who take the initiative in sex or, even better, provoke the sexual act itself. The banal truth says: for him there is nothing more seductive than an excited girl who wants passionate sex with him. It is very important for your lover to constantly know that you want him. Don't be afraid to show your enthusiasm spontaneously. For example, by sending an erotic message in broad daylight. But... Be careful! Do not play with this power and return the reins of government to him more often. A man welcomes the initiative, but a woman's transition to aggressive behavior in bed will cause admiration only among a few.
2. NEW TRICKS
For men, sex is a fairly priority occupation and therefore it may well become a weighty argument in favor of a long and happy love, and for a woman - a kind of leverage for managing relationships. Experiments in bed are an excellent stimulant for the male sex. Sexual desire is like an appetite: we all want to try different tastes, because eating the same thing is boring. A man wants to see a woman in bed who is able to give him new unique sensations.
3. FOR SUCH TORSO SHOULD BE PENED. HE IS CRAZY!
Not only women love with their ears and need to hear compliments and praise for their appearance from time to time. Men are very susceptible to sweet (and a little flattering) remarks and words. Your partner wants to know that he has something special that turns a woman on. It could be about his appearance, the move he made, a good joke, or intellectual ability. Feel free to say what qualities of him you find extremely sexy, and his self-esteem will increase.
4. Turn on the lights
During sex, leave the lights on and thereby demonstrate your trust in your partner. Men really like to see women naked, examine them, study them, get acquainted with every part of the body. Stop making love in the dark or wrapping up in sheets! It is not necessary to light all the light bulbs in the house, the intimate light of a couple of candles, the glow of the TV turned on, or the rays of light brazenly breaking through the curtain are enough. Use these little tricks to create a movie-like effect. Men are naturally visual and get aroused by looking at their partner. In addition, most of the representatives of the stronger sex dream that their ladies also like to watch the intimate process. Those who dare to openly self-stimulate in the light in front of their man will receive an additional passionate bonus.
5. JUST IMAGINE...
Any man wants his woman to be "easy-going" and not shy about her erotic desires. There is nothing sexier than making your partner's love fantasies come true. Many men are afraid to confess their dreams for fear of being rejected. Tell him about your fantasies and ask about his. Take the first step towards making them a reality: You don't have to be exactly what you want, but you can find a compromise that will help both of you enjoy the process. Or, even better, come up with and execute a dream sexual experiment together.
Men love not only with their eyes, but also with their ears - the sounds in bed excite them. In the concept of "ideal lover" they, among other things, put a soft low timbre of voice and a quiet seductive manner of speaking. Too many words are not needed. Don't keep chirping in your ear about how your day went. An interesting way to kindle serious passions is “dirty” words. It is necessary to swear strongly in bed in a timely and masterly manner. Silly shouting of brutal nouns, verbs and adjectives can lead to irritation. Take a closer look: if there are signs of exclusively emotional, but not sexual arousal, then most likely the partner is simply furious.
7. DRESS UP FOR THE OCCASION
Why spend big money on erotic lingerie if it's on the floor in two minutes? Slow down! Men adore beautiful and well-packed gifts and come to a real delight and awe, anticipating how they will unfold it. Undress slowly. He will be delighted with the "preview picture" that will soon be in his hands. Put on your sexiest lingerie, complete your look with lace stockings and boldly lead your loved one into a room with a large mirror.
8. SURPRISE!
Are you the kind of woman who needs to have everything planned and ready to make love? Or in sex, as in life, do you love the element of surprise? Spontaneity is the perfect fuel for libido. Men love everything unknown, they like to feel adrenaline and new discoveries in sex. The surprise factor promotes the production of the hormone dopamine, which exacerbates the feeling of satisfaction and special pleasure from life. For example, every man thinks about sex in non-standard places, like in an erotic movie. You don't want someone else to be the main character, do you? Invite your partner to have sex at a private picnic or in the pool.
9. MOVEMENT IS LIFE
Over time, in a couple's sexual relationship, there inevitably comes a moment when both find 1-2 positions in which they feel comfortable. But, as statistics show, a large number of couples break up, adjusted for the fact that they are "bored in bed." Feel free to try new and unexpected things, guide your partner in the right direction with words. Men are accustomed to constantly replenish the baggage of knowledge in practice. Move, look for new poses to help him make enchanting discoveries. And remember the golden rule of all men without exception: a real woman should be a mistress in the kitchen, a prude at a party and a lover in bed.
